So I lieu of needing a table, Jason and I decided that the sand ceremony was not for us. But I've done some research and I'm kind of in love with the idea of a hand fasting ceremony. It'stypically a pagan thing but I think could be easily transferred into a Christian ritual. I like the idea of us taking a cord of three strands (Bible verse!) to bind us together, thus representing me, Jason and God being forever tied together because of cord of three strands (representing Jason, me and God) is not easily broken!